Family constellations, Systemic coaching & Lifestyle coaching

Dechen works in North on Thursdays.

Contact:

• dechen@healingpeople.nl
• 06 33 65 39 22

I am Dechen, mother of two beautiful daughters, anthropologist, systemic coach, Buddhist and above all human being. I work with various methods, including family constellations, non-violent communication, coaching, awareness and meditation. The common thread in everything I do is attention

I offer peace and space for your question and for who or what you are. Together, we explore the essence of this to transform it into who you are. Rediscovering yourself, making and maintaining healthy connections. And so from the natural peace within yourself, take on the challenge or role again.

Systemic coaching, Family constellations

Systemic work I do includes family constellations in groups or on an individual consultation basis.
The systemic perspective provides knowledge and understanding of the connectedness and dependence of the family system. The great importance of the system you were born into is nice to recognise. So that more space can be created for your own path, in connection with your family system, but not at its behest. All topics and questions are welcome.

Relationship constellations

Here, it is important to be able to clarify patterns in a relationship and to make the connection with your and your partner's family system.

Lifestyle coaching

A sustainable lifestyle is something that takes time, and step by step you make the choices that fit who you are and how you want to be in the world, both inside and outside yourself. I give practical advice and support in giving your desires more shape in your life, so that you and your environment become healthier through the choices you dare to make.

Birth coaching:birth preparation

Giving birth to a new life is one of the biggest transformative events in your life, not only practically, but also for who you are, you are given a new role, mother, with all sorts of uncertainties and new tasks. For this role there we did not learn for, it just suddenly comes to us. I like to help mothers find relaxation and confidence in the upcoming birth. I can offer support in getting clear and practical about how you would like to give birth.

Elimination communication: potty training without nappies

Soil training from birth, is something that has been the way to deal with babies in many other cultures for centuries without the use of nappies. You will learn to read the signals of your baby's needs. This particular way of interacting with your baby, gives you a huge range of opportunities to interact with your child. And practically speaking, it's a huge saving for the environment and your wallet. If you want to know more, you are always welcome to attend an information evening or an individual consultation to hear more about this original method.

Parenting coaching: natural parenting and awareness parenting

Parenting: how to be or become a relaxed parent who, enjoys life and all the things that come with it. Not having to be the perfect parent, but the parent you want to be!
The basis of natural parenting and conscious parenting lies with yourself, your intuition and that of your child. Because of the busyness, you sometimes forget that there is already a lot of natural knowledge within you. I can help you reconnect with and clear the path to your own natural knowing.Daring to trust your knowledge and insight is the goal and if you don't know for a while you just look for support. I also offer extra support by email if you have questions.

Parenting after divorce

Divorce can be very traumatic for children, in which case it is nice when, as parents, you can continue to put your children's best interests first. In shaping this, I can offer advice. And here, the systemic perspective is also a very good way to examine the patterns from your family line. This clarifies and helps in your new role as a divorced parent.